Meet the attorney

I'm James,

and I became a lawyer because I believe every person and every family — no matter how it's formed — deserves the same legal protections, the same peace of mind, and the same fierce advocacy. You can call me Attorney, Counselor, Mr. Knapp, Mx. Knapp, or just James. I hope you'll soon call me your Chosen Family Lawyer™.

James, attorney at Chosen Family Lawyer

For more than two decades, I've been working to make the world a little safer, fairer, and more welcoming for LGBTQ+ people and the families we create. I've testified before the Ohio Legislature, worked with other advocates on statewide policy, and helped our community navigate some extraordinarily difficult moments. But activism isn't the reason I became a lawyer. It's the reason I know why this legal work matters. The law doesn't always automatically recognize our closest relationships. That's where planning comes in... Your estate plan should reflect the family you actually have—not the family a legal form assumes you have. My job is to listen to your stories, understand your relationships, identify the places where the law could fail you, and build a plan that protects what you've worked so hard to create. I'm here to educate you on your options and help you make informed decisions. I don't believe in cookie-cutter estate planning. Every client has a different family. Every family has different relationships, assets, concerns, and goals. That's why I personally draft every estate plan. I don't believe your family's future should be generated by an algorithm, assembled from a generic template, or handed off to someone who doesn't understand you, your family, your community, or your values.

Education & credentials

Juris Doctor (JD)
Thomas M. Cooley Law School
Bachelor of Arts (BA)
The University of Akron
Licensed to Practice
  • State of Ohio
  • U.S. District Court, Northern District of Ohio
  • Supreme Court of the United States
Memberships
  • Ohio Bar Association
  • American Bar Association
  • National LGBTQ+ Bar Association
  • National Trans Bar Association
What to expect

How We Work Together

Every plan is different, and plans change. Choose the level of support that fits where you are now.

Solo

For individuals

Core documents to get your foundational protections in place — will, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives tailored to your chosen family.

Most popular

Couples

Built around your life together — wills, trusts, beneficiary coordination, asset protection, and a plan that actually holds up when it matters most.

Family

Complete protection

Everything in Couples, plus ongoing counsel, and annual plan reviews — so your plan stays current as your family and life evolve.

Transparency

Fee Transparency

I draft every document myself, and my fees reflect the value of my time, care, and personal attention. Each plan is tailored to you and your chosen family — I cannot give you a fair price estimate until I have a good picture of your available options. I'd be happy to explain my fee tier structure during your Consultation or Engagement Meeting.   I strongly believe your current financial situation should not be a barrier to receiving competent legal services in planning for your future. Please don't hesitate to ask about payment plans or third-party financing. I will occasionally offer special pricing available only to attendees of events, current or previous clients, or by referral. But payment is due in part before the Design Meeting and in full before the Signing Meeting. The best way to save money while working with me is by taking advantage of my tier and enhancement structure. All work included within your selected Chosen Service Tier is covered by a flat fee, including ongoing maintenance. Any additional work requested by you will be billed separately at $550 per hour for legal services and/or $250 per hour for administrative tasks. You will be informed before additional fees are incurred whenever practicable.

Consultation Meeting
A get-to-know-you conversation — no decisions are made, no fees are due.
Engagement Meeting
Signing agreement(s) that you've hired me — payment is due before design meeting.
Design Meeting
Building your plan, together — now is the time to ask questions and make important decisions.
Signing Meeting
Signing and notarizing your documents! — expect final delivery within one week.
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AI Disclaimer

Artificial intelligence (AI) can be a useful tool. But AI cannot replace an attorney's analysis, advice, or professional judgment. AI-assisted information may contain mistakes or outdated information and should not be treated as accurate legal advice, ever.

Your Chosen Family Lawyer™ will never let AI draft your estate plan! I believe every client's situation deserves thoughtful, attorney-led analysis and review.

Ready to protect your family?

Schedule a free consultation and let's talk about what the right plan looks like for you and your chosen family.

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